Positive=negative; negative = positive. We are all learning to balance these equations. We have a tendency to label facets of our life (health, aging, death, birth, growth, success, failure, etc.) as either good or bad. We define our lives by good or bad and the bad can usually out do the good. Sooner or later what we perceive as bad things will happen in our lives. But suppose what we label disorder and badness can collapse the ego mental and become an opening into higher realms and order. When we bereave with a broken heart this is actually opening our heart to receive consciousness/wisdom like never before.
Let us remember the universe is an indivisible whole where all things are interconnected and that nothing exists in isolation or without purpose and none of it is here to punish us but is based in love. Rather than judging, shaming or blaming what is happening in our lives, let us enter into consciousness alignment with it and with the higher realms and divine order. Examine what we can learn about ourselves through what is happening. Where and what is the lesson?
If we could not mind what happens (which seems impossible for most) what would that energetically mean? It would mean our higher self, our conscious self, is in alignment with what happens (having preferences but not demands). It would mean we are in higher, inner nonresistance (what we resist, persists) with what happens. When we are in alignment with what is happening in the now moment, our actions become empowered by the forces of life itself. When we are one with what happens what happens no longer has any power over us.
The cosmos is not random or chaotic; the word cosmos means order and we humans are not ready through our minds to fully understand it all….but we are surely in process to be and do so.