Humanity: The problem we have is that we have some difficulty to see the people we don’t like, to be them and them being me, and that we are all one and everyone ultimately. We realize that although we all come from the same Creator, that we are all the same and all one, however this is just not yet our cup of tea.
Lord Sananda: You feel this way because you do not yet see the real truth and wisdom you need to embrace to leap into the next step with ease and grace. You have not yet taken this wisdom to the deeper level you need to go in order to receive the full understanding. So let us work with this for a moment, because it is important to understand it for yourselves. You will all need this wisdom eventually. This is a most important teaching we want to share with you.
Understand that there is a reason why you don’t like those individuals and you have some unpleasant encounters with them. There may have been some abrasiveness perhaps and they may have rubbed you the wrong way. Or they may have been some kind of an irritant in your life such as someone trying to exploit you or not appreciate or understand you.
Now, take the irritation and identify it. Ask yourself what is it about that person(s) that really irritates me, annoys me or makes me angry? Ask yourself what emotions does it bring up inside you? How do you feel about yourself in the presence of that person? It will become evident to you that this person makes you feel a certain way that you do not like. Well, of course, they can’t make you feel anything negative, because they do not have that power. You alone have this power.
If you feel an irritation, it is because the emotions are already present within you. Those people are merely your trigger and your mirror for you to recognize what you still have to heal within self in order to move to a higher vibrational frequency. It really has nothing to do with the other person at all.
Now, dig deeply and really look inside of yourself and analyze how you are feeling and how other people and other mirrors in your life have triggered the very same thing. Perhaps not exactly in the same manner, but in a similar way, and look throughout your life how many times has this happened.
Now ask yourself the question, what have I judged or hated within myself that has created this mirror? You know very well that it is all about you, about how you feel about yourself on the deepest of levels. It is never about the other person.
When you really go deeper, you will come to understand that this merely represents a misunderstanding within yourself, a judgment you have held about yourself or some anger you have held towards yourself. It is about a false belief you have created about yourself.
When you heal a rift that you have with another person, it is not the other person that you are healing; it is you. The other person may or may not benefit from this but it is not your problem. The main character is you, creating your own healing.
These experiences are merely catalysts that you created to resolve false beliefs you hold about yourself, those buried deep within the subconscious. That is why they are created, to trigger a new level of healing.
God is not sending you people to annoy you for his own entertainment. You yourself, just through your own divine intent to realize your enlightenment, magnetically attract those individuals that are going to provoke your own limitations and bring them to the surface of conscious awareness, in order that you can experience what needs to be healed.
From the experience, you will make a new decision for yourself if you are ready. Are you ready? When you are faced with a mirror and identify how they make you feel at first, go deeply into the feelings. The person portraying the mirror does not really intend to annoy you; they are just being who they are.
When you decide you no longer want to believe this separated understanding about yourself, you no longer want to feel about yourself the way you have felt, you begin to change the false identity.
You start perceiving your own worth and acknowledge that you are greater in worth and in value than the mirror that was presented to you. And in deep emotion, in deep love and acceptance, you really make a new choice of identity about yourself. A very interesting miracle will occur. The next time you are in the presence of that person there will be no energy; it will be completely gone because you have handled the issue within yourself.
Now another way you can resolve something when you are faced with a mirror is to ask yourself, how am I that also? Be willing to experience the mirror within yourself according to your own uniqueness. How have I done this to myself also?
Transcript Dated 5/10/12